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This is an excellent article about keeping balance between your personal and work life. So, I wanted to share it with all of you.Change your route

What I mean by this is literally "change your route home". If you have a bad or overly stressful day at work,

take the long way home. During the first half of your journey home, turn the radio off and think about what you

have to accomplish at work and how you will execute. During the second half of the drive, turn on whatever

music you like, talk radio, (whatever) and begin the process of thinking about things outside of work. Do not

think about work during the entire commute, you must separate before you get home!

The boss at work does not equal the boss at home

Just because you are an important guy at work doesn't mean that you get to make demands at home. You

have to remember that the people you live with are not paid to take your BS. If you love them, you will treat

them better than those that report to you. On the flip side of this, your being an entry-level employee at work

doesn't mean that at home you can get the "power trip" your ego begs for.

Vent

Venting is the art of blowing your lid and we all do it. Once you get home after work and kiss the kids, give

yourself a 15-minute window to let it out. You should set this up in advance with your spouse but leave the

time limit at 15 minutes. During that time, they have to simply listen and let you get it out. After that, you must

agree that work is over.

Blackberry/Laptop

Occasionally we all have to work at night or on the weekends. The key here is to set an expectation when

honestly important projects arise. If you really don't need to work, keep the electronics off. Don't login just

because you are curious. As we all know you will find reasons to email people or start completing tasks.

Questions first

When you get home, immediately ask how your spouse's day went (AND LISTEN). Many times their

response is enough to get you to think of family tasks and break you away from work. In addition, you will

probably earn some points for engaging them in the conversation. Remember, it's human nature to want to

talk about yourself so resist the urge.

Survival

Whether you believe it or not, your company will survive without you. It is key to remember this as you

choose where to spend time. If it is after hours and you haven't turned off the blackberry, you have to resist

the urge to get involved in something that isn't really ultra-critical.

No work, no matter what

This is a tough one but at my house we practice it like a religion. On Tuesdays and Thursdays from 5-10 PM I

have sworn not to do work. These nights and times actually have a place in my calendar and I have told

co-workers that I am absolutely unavailable no matter what. If I were a CEO making 10 trillion per year

perhaps this would change but I am not so...I'm booked.

25% Rule

When I plan my days, I leave a minimum of 25% of the time open. This time is used for emergencies, task

lists, etc. It is during that time that I accomplish smaller tasks that I would have reserved for off-hours.

Get up earlier

Don't be a crybaby about this one. If may sting in the beginning but if you are constantly running out of time,

take time from you and not your family. As your family sleeps, you can easily get some stuff done by heading

to the office early.

These are things I do and they are tough at times because there are constantly urgent issues arising at work.

The key for me was learning how to delegate and say no when I had to. Again, it's not easy but with some

will, you can do it.

I'd love to hear what you do to really get some work/home separation. If you have a cure that I didn't mention,

please share it in the comments. It would probably help a lot of people.

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